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> <channel><title>Cerulean Sanctum &#187; Youth</title> <atom:link href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/category/church/youth/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://ceruleansanctum.com</link> <description>Looking for the 1st century Church in 21st century America</description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 17:52:41 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <item><title>The Real Reason Why Young People Are Leaving the Church</title><link>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/03/the-real-reason-why-young-people-are-leaving-the-church.html</link> <comments>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/03/the-real-reason-why-young-people-are-leaving-the-church.html#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 13:08:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Dan Edelen</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Christianity in North America]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Church Issues]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Community]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Counterculture]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Discernment]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Godly Character]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Humility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[In the News]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Maturity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Notable Christians]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Oddities]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Relevance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Revival]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Simplicity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Authentic Faith]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Authenticity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Christianism]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Discipleship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[GOP]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Leaving a Church]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Lordship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Moral Majority]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Right-Wing Politics]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ron Paul]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Selflessness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Skye Jethani]]></category> <category><![CDATA[The Cost of Discipleship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Young People]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://ceruleansanctum.com/?p=2384</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks back, I touched on the issue of the increasing loss of people under 30 years of age in our churches (&#8220;The Church’s Lost Tribe&#8220;). The post was less about my thoughts and more about reader explanations for why this well-documented loss is occurring. I&#8217;ll offer my thoughts today, but first, one more [...]</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/03/the-real-reason-why-young-people-are-leaving-the-church.html">The Real Reason Why Young People Are Leaving the Church</a></p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks back, I touched on the issue of the increasing loss of people under 30 years of age in our churches (&#8220;<a
title="Link to 'The Church's Lost Tribe'" href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/02/church-lost-tribe.html">The Church’s Lost Tribe</a>&#8220;). The post was less about my thoughts and more about reader explanations for why this well-documented loss is occurring.</p><p>I&#8217;ll offer my thoughts today, but first, one more commentator.</p><p>Skye Jethani, one of the ascending names in post-Evangelicalism, attempts to pin the reason on the Internet&#8217;s favorite whipping boy: right-wing politics. Or more specifically, the Religious Right / Moral Majority interpretation of right-wing politics. For more, read his &#8220;<a
title="Link to SkyeBox" href="http://www.skyejethani.com/christianism-leads-to-atheism/1246/">Christianism Leads to Atheism</a>&#8221; post.</p><p>Jethani cites an article &#8220;<a
href="http://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/137100/david-e-campbell-and-robert-d-putnam/god-and-caesar-in-america">God and Caesar in America: Why Mixing Religion and Politics is Bad for Both</a>&#8221; and attempts to data mine it. But like a bad doctor who automatically equates all headaches with brain tumors, Jethani assigns blame to the symptom rather than to the underlying disease.</p><p>In Jethani&#8217;s post, he states young people today are more politically liberal than older people. But if recent figures in the GOP primary are an indication, this is more a media sacred cow than reality. The most conservative candidate running is Ron Paul, and the hidden story is that Paul is crushing all the other GOP hopefuls in the 18-30 age demographic, winning (at last count) that group in every state that has held a primary. (If the 18-30 demographic, which has never been consistently enthusiastic about primaries, actually got to the polls in higher numbers, this might be a different race.) Even more compelling is that Paul is drawing young people who voted for Barack Obama in 2008 and are disillusioned with that president&#8217;s broken promises.</p><p>What young people find compelling in Ron Paul is he&#8217;s not ringmastering a dog and pony show. There are no smoke and mirrors. With Paul, they see a man who is not a political reptile but an authentic conservative from before the neo-cons grabbed control. They see a man with a real plan and genuine vision to fix problems and not just talk, talk, talk. To young people, authenticity matters more than just about any other trait. As they see it, Ron Paul lives what he believes, and what he believes rings true to them.</p><p>Can you see where this is going?</p><p>Oddly, the title of Jethani&#8217;s piece is more accurate than what follows in his post. Christianism does lead to atheism because Christianism (which is to Christianity as truthiness is to truth) isn&#8217;t genuine Christianity. It&#8217;s a twisted clone, inauthentic to the core.</p><p>It&#8217;s not that young people don&#8217;t like the politics of churches today. What they can&#8217;t stand is the dog and pony show that our churches have become. <a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/images/dog_pony_show.jpg"><img
class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2385" title="Dog and pony show" src="http://ceruleansanctum.com/images/dog_pony_show.jpg" alt="Dog and pony show" width="285" height="256" /></a>What throws Jethani and others is that Christian political maneuvering is nothing more than a natural outgrowth of churches gone bad. It rushes into the vacuum left behind when genuine Christianity is gutted. The political mess and the culture wars are symptoms, but they are not the root of the disease.</p><p>Young people aren&#8217;t stupid. They can read the Book of Acts too. And the Church they find there is radically unlike the American Church of 2012.</p><p>If you want to blame a demographic for stupidity, look at the 35-65 group. We&#8217;re the ones that created these bogus churches that are all fluff and no substance. We&#8217;re the ones who are not feeding the poor, not evangelizing the world, not living in community, not building up each other&#8217;s gifts, not looking out for the needy in our own ranks, and generally disregarding every characteristic of the Church in Acts that made it vital, living, and desperately necessary to the lives of those early disciples. Young people today are not interested in boarding a train that has derailed. That many of us with some &#8220;maturity&#8221; are is a sign of our own ignorance.</p><p>Here&#8217;s the kicker: More and more of us who have been Christians for decades are fed up with pointless churches. We&#8217;re sick of the show too. With so many churches not living up to the standard we read in Acts, my peers and I will be the next group to go missing.</p><p>Christian commentators are wringing their hands over young people who when asked what their religion is say &#8220;none.&#8221; Honestly, I say good for those young people. Because the last thing the Church needs is more religion. What we need is Jesus Christ as Lord of our lives and for the Church to stop with the sideshows and to start looking less like a carnival and more like the authentic faith it was almost 2,000 years ago.</p><p>If that happens, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised to hear the 18-30 year olds say, &#8220;What took you so long?&#8221;</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
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isPermaLink="false">http://ceruleansanctum.com/?p=2355</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Had a conversation with a friend from church yesterday regarding a lost tribe. No, not one in the Amazon basin of South America, but in our own church. Truthfully, many churches suffer for the loss of this people group. Maybe yours does too. The lost tribe? Adults 18-28. Sure, some of these youth group graduates [...]</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/02/church-lost-tribe.html">The Church&#8217;s Lost Tribe</a></p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Had a conversation with a friend from church yesterday regarding a lost tribe. No, not one in the Amazon basin of South America, but in our own church. Truthfully, many churches suffer for the loss of this people group. Maybe yours does too.</p><p>The lost tribe? Adults 18-28.</p><p>Sure, some of these youth group graduates go on to college or leave the area to pursue jobs elsewhere. But, in general, churches don&#8217;t seem to retain this group.<a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/images/young_adults.gif"><img
class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2356" title="Young adults" src="http://ceruleansanctum.com/images/young_adults.gif" alt="Young adults" width="285" height="189" /></a> These young adults aren&#8217;t sticking around.</p><p>My experience has been that young people from churches with denominational or theological ties to the Azusa Street revival fare the worst. Pentecostal and Assemblies of God churches seem hardest hit.</p><p>My friend suggested that perhaps those young people never really grasped the reality of Christ. If true, what does that say about our youth groups and all these conversions and &#8220;changed lives&#8221; we keep hearing about?</p><p>It&#8217;s especially troubling when the youth group grads DON&#8217;T go away to college or move out of the area. What are we to think of their sudden disappearing act once they get their high school diploma?</p><p>True, some young adults do drift back once they marry or have children, but as many do not. What about them?</p><p>What thoughts do you have as to why this group goes missing so easily? What do you think might be the solution?</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/02/church-lost-tribe.html">The Church&#8217;s Lost Tribe</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2012/02/church-lost-tribe.html/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>13</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Tunnel Vision</title><link>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2011/09/tunnel-vision.html</link> <comments>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2011/09/tunnel-vision.html#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 13:03:16 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Dan Edelen</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Christianity in North America]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Church Issues]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Counterculture]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Discernment]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Dying to Self]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Godly Character]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Grace]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Homeschooling]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Humility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Judgmentalism]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Love]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Oddities]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Simplicity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Acceptance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Children]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Discipleship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Expectations]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Gracelessness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Homeschool]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Homeschoolers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Legalism]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self-Righteousness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Youth Ministry]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://ceruleansanctum.com/?p=2308</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>It is rare that I read anything on the Web that sets me a-nodding from the first line. Josh Harris&#8217;s reprint of &#8220;Exposing Major Blind Spots of Homeschoolers&#8221; by Reb Bradley gave me motion sickness from my perpetual head-bobbing in agreement. Beyond its look at how homeschooling parents can miss the forest for the trees, [...]</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2011/09/tunnel-vision.html">Tunnel Vision</a></p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is rare that I read anything on the Web that sets me a-nodding from the first line. Josh Harris&#8217;s reprint of &#8220;<a
title="'Exposing Major Blind Spots of Homeschoolers' by Reb Bradley" href="http://www.joshharris.com/2011/09/homeschool_blindspots.php">Exposing Major Blind Spots of Homeschoolers</a>&#8221; by Reb Bradley gave me motion sickness from my perpetual head-bobbing in agreement.</p><p>Beyond its look at how homeschooling parents can miss the forest for the trees, it exposes the general disconnection from simple reality that often plagues the most zealous Christian families and churches. Bradley&#8217;s confession at how his son received more love from the boy&#8217;s tat-laden, stoner co-workers than from his own Christian family is a tale oft-told yet one rarely comprehended.</p><p>It&#8217;s also an article woven through with examples of overt gracelessness, as holier-than-thou condemnation takes center stage in households that should know the core of the Gospel better. But knowing isn&#8217;t always living, and if anything, better praxis in the American Church is the one area of needed growth no rational person can argue against.</p><p>I&#8217;ll also put in props for my previous post (&#8220;<a
title="Permalink to Fear: The Ruination of the American Church" href="../2011/09/fear-the-ruination-of-the-american-church.html" rel="bookmark">Fear: The Ruination of the American Church</a>&#8220;), as the Bradley article amplifies how fear of the times and the world as it is contributes to the errors committed by well-meaning Christian homeschoolers.</p><p>More than anything, I believe this article argues for the Way of the Average. I continue to note that the people who seem to get on best with life are those who were neither too outstanding nor too underperforming. I learned this at a reunion many years ago: The people who were average in high school (and possibly overlooked then) were enjoying the best, happiest lives.</p><p>One could argue from the experience of averageness that it is not the spiritual superstar in the youth group who goes on to achieve the greatest ministry. Same goes for the über-student held out as the homeschooling pinnacle. For every Nobel prize winner, there&#8217;s a Todd Marinovich. It very well may be that it is possible to be <em>too</em> Christian, especially when that which is gaged as &#8220;Christian&#8221; has more to do with impressing the spiritual Joneses than with clinging to the Faith as expressed in Palestine AD 60.</p><p>Hat tips to <a
title="Link to Challies.com" href="http://challies.com">Challies </a>for bringing this one to light and to all the others who noted it. Do read this one. It&#8217;s an 11 out of 10.</p><p>This feed is from Cerulean Sanctum (http://ceruleansanctum.com), a blog by Dan Edelen that covers issues facing the American Church.<br/><br/><a
href="http://ceruleansanctum.com/2011/09/tunnel-vision.html">Tunnel Vision</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://ceruleansanctum.com/2011/09/tunnel-vision.html/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>24</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
