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Seen So Far This Christmas Shopping Season…
December 5, 2006

Posted by Dan Edelen in : Benevolence, Dying to Self, Godly Character, In the News, Miscellany, Simplicity

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Some random things I've observed in the first weeks of the shopping season. Nothing of great spiritual import, just interesting.

Sorry if this post appears Grinch-y. I'm usually done shopping by Veterans Day, but this year I can't seem to get into shopping like I once did. Growing up, my family saved all shopping for the year for Christmas, so presents swamped the tree. I'm used to taking hours to open gifts.

This year, though, I'm distracted. I see so much need around me. It's so easy to buy, buy, buy and miss the people whose Christmases will once again be sparse. I think about the elderly people who would much rather have their family pay them some attention than to toss a gift their way one day and ignore them the other 364. Or single parents struggling just to keep a roof overhead and food on the table.

I'm watching more than participating in the six week consumer bonanza that makes up the majority of yearly spending in this country. Frankly, our own Christmas promises to be a little thin this year. Don't know how I'll square that with Christmases fondly remembered, but I still have room to grow.

I believe God's desiring that all of us receive less and give more, thinking outside the bunkers we call home to the less fortunate tucked in the cracks of the world. We got the ultimate gift in Jesus. I pray we don't forget to offer His gift of eternal life to everyone we know.

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Comment by Karen in Wichita
2006-12-05 09:26:24

Re the electric vehicles: the answer there is “grandparents.” For his second (IIRC) Christmas, my mother gave my son an electric Beetle, and my husband’s mother gave him an electric Indian motorcycle. That was also known as “The Year The Grandparents Were Told They’d Better Clear Presents With Each Other *And* With The Parents Next Time.” Because there was *clearly* an arms race developing.

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 12:04:08

Karen,

My son doesn’t have those kind of grandparents. I guess you’re telling me that’s a good thing.

Comment by Karen in Wichita
2006-12-05 17:21:06

He’s the only grandchild on both sides. The grandmas were VERY ENTHUSIASTIC the first few years. I solved the problem by inviting grandmas to come clean his room a few months before Christmas, and try to figure out where everything goes.

Nowadays, he gets lots of school clothes and books, and a lot fewer toys. And the upside is that he’s entirely comfortable with giving away anything that isn’t one of the very few things he treasures (and selection of treasured items is generally not at all linked to cost).

 
 
 
Comment by Patricia
2006-12-05 09:29:21

You said “I believe God’s desiring that all of us receive less and give more, thinking outside the bunkers we call home to the less fortunate tucked in the cracks of the world.” Amen! That truly resonates with me this year, as well, thanks, to a great extent, to the inspiration I have received at Cerulean Sanctum. Blessings in abundance!

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 12:09:12

Thanks, Patricia. If the blog wasn’t helpful to people’s walks with the Lord, I’d shut it down in an instant.

 
 
Comment by Don Fields
2006-12-05 10:14:12

Thanks for the shopping tips. Since I always do my shopping late in the year, you’ve saved me some time. This will be a slim year for us as well, but since it is our son’s first Christmas with us there is no “past tradition” to live down. Maybe the “slim Christmas” will be the norm as we seek to help others more.

It is hard to go spend a lot of money on your family when you have so much stuff already. When my mother-in-law asked me what I wanted for Christmas I could only think of three or four things and then I drew a blank.I don’t have room to store any more stuff anyway. We are so blessed in America!

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 12:12:45

Don,

I got pumped about “Baby’s First Christmas” only to realize that itty-bitty kids would rather chew the paper the present came in. Christmas doesn’t get that eye-popping response until about 2.5 years old.

I have no problem buying gifts that meet real needs. You’re right, though: few of us have real needs that can be met by a wrapped present.

 
 
Comment by Deb
2006-12-05 11:49:00

Dan, our family LOVES Ticket to Ride. Our adult son also bought the European version and it is fun as well as educational. Board games and jigsaw puzzles have brought the warm, fuzzy, family-all-together-around-the-table feel of Christmas back to our family. Can’t recommend them highly enough. Catch-Phrase is another good game. Lots of laughs, and a good icebreaker if you’re playing with guests you want to know better.
Wishing the Edelens a very blessed Christmas!

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 12:23:37

Deb,

I’m not surprised your family’s boardgame fans. I grew up in a boardgame-playing family and loved those times around the kitchen table playing something interesting. When I was a teen, summers off were spent playing Avalon Hill tactical wargames like Panzerblitz and Squad Leader. We’d play one game for days.

I see Apples to Apples on the shelf everywhere now, but I got that game several years ago when no one had seen it. Everywhere we took it, people later rushed out to buy it. We were like evangelists for the Apples to Apples.

Our closet is stocked with games and I hope this year to finally institute a quasi-evangelistic board game night that runs at our house once a month. That means stocking up on games most people haven’t seen before, like Ticket to Ride, Carcassonne, Settlers of Catan, Wits & Wagers, Why Did the Chicken, and such. Unfortunately, those games aren’t found at Target, nor are they ever discounted below that magic $20 price point. We’ll see. Things are tough this year.

 
 
Comment by Rick Beckman
2006-12-05 12:18:05

I work at Walmart as a toy department manager, but after reading this post I am compelled to simply say, You are my hero.

I work in the toys because it keeps a roof over our heads, but I don’t think I’ll ever live to see the day when things like $250+ ride-on toys make since. And toys which require cartridges (or refills, for that matter) have been something I’ve disliked since I was a child. Sure, it’s fun for a few months, but what happens when you need more smoke-filled bubble solution for your Ninja Turtles bubble-dropping jet toy? Great toy which I woulda played with for several more years with my action figures, but of course they want you to buy the next big thing each year rather than perpetuating those you already own.

They are the grinches, if you ask me.

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 14:33:07

Rick,

I never thought I’d be called a hero for talking about toys! But thank you.

 
 
Comment by Max Ambrose
2006-12-05 13:21:22

Dan,
Amen to all you said.

Don’t forget about the asinine practice of camping out in front of Best Buy for a week just to get the latest technolgy toy.

My apologies to any of you that do that. But, I do have to ask: What do you do for a living that enables you to have time to do that?

Max

Comment by Dan Edelen
2006-12-05 14:36:13

Max,

Many people today don’t work 9 to 5 jobs. Or they take a vacation day. It’s not too hard to imagine how they have the time to do that. If they were able to turn around and sell an item like that on eBay for $3,000, I might have joined them!

Comment by Max Ambrose
2006-12-05 14:56:41

Yea, me too.

But, Dan, my Mom works for Best Buy and they had people out there for a FULL WEEK!

Max

 
 
 
Comment by CS reader
2006-12-05 14:53:14

When our kids became teenagers and we could no longer afford the gifts on their lists, we quit giving gifts for Christmas (the siblings still exchange gifts and they get little gifts in their stockings on Christmas morning). But instead, we gave them money in envelopes which they could add to whatever cash they got from grandparents. Then, one day between Christmas and New Years, when everything is on sale, the whole family makes a day of shopping together (no lone rangers…we all help each other spend our money - though sometimes boys and girls split toward the end of the day to save time). We end our day by going out to eat in the fanciest restaurant we can afford that year. The highlight of the day, and what has become our favorite family tradition, is secretly leaving a $100 bill as a tip for our server. We always pray that the Lord will send someone to wait on our table who really needs the cash, and we have a rule that, tempting though it is, we must make a quick get-away and not stay to wait and see the server’s reaction. (We also pay for our meal with cash so we can’t ever be tracked down and thanked. We wanted to teach our kids to give without expecting anything in return.) Like I said, it is the highlight of the holiday season for us.

Comment by Patricia
2006-12-05 21:38:11

What an great idea, CS reader - the $100 tip and paying for your meal with cash! BTW…I am a waitress at…..just kidding!

 
 
Comment by AlieraKieron
2006-12-07 13:41:06

On point 2: To be precise, Walmart’s figures are down. Most other stores are up. It’s not just that the “poor are poorer and the rich are richer”, although I’m sure there’s a bit of that there: it’s that Walmart has now managed to offend and upset everyone. Most people I know are uncomfortable with their overall business practices, and some are downright hostile. (And it’s not who you’d think, either: the biggest hater of Walmart I know is a girl from the UpNorth in Wisconsin who saw her entire town whither away when the big box moved into town and shut down all the local businesses while paying minimum wage.) People just don’t see it the low, low prices as such a good deal anymomre.

 
Comment by David Riggins
2006-12-10 10:49:18

I stopped giving Christmas gifts several years ago. The concept behind it is so worldly, the competition and expectations so full of sin and corruption as to be choking. So is that being a grinch? I personally think the greatest gift I can give is to be in the service of God every day of the year. To go more deeply into debt each year just to appear approved to others, even if that is one’s family, is just stupid. So dump the false pretence of “giving” and jump on the bandwagon of “serving”. It is cheaper, more fulfilling, and doesn’t get thrown in the trash because it doesn’t break. In the meantime, reserve Christmas for what it is, a day to give praise and honor to the child of God who came to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.

 
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